…the kids were not interviewed about what was said and done at our house, and were allowed to simply enjoy their time with both parents?
…the focus shifted from revenge, egos, and score-keeping, to helping the kids heal and grow?
…all the adults in this situation realized that the kids are learning how to handle conflict and relationships by watching us…and realized that what the kids are learning right now is downright horrific and shameful?
…instead of scouring the Internet for dirt to use against me, that time and energy was placed into self-improvement and making choices that benefit the kids?
…lawyers refused to accept cases that assisted poisonous parents with their hateful cause?
…poisonous parents were actually held accountable for their actions?
What if…the kids’ emotional well-being and best interests really were what it was all about?
*Grow Up drawing courtesy of IdiomsByKids.com*