To lie to a child who trusts you and loves you takes no great skill at all. It requires no wit, cleverness, or shrewdness. All it takes is the willingness to disrespect them and their love, to piss on the trust they placed in you, and to be an incomprehensible asshole.

To celebrate your blatant failure as a human being is the epitome of worthlessness and perversity.

To repeatedly disregard the feelings and well-being of a child in order to placate your selfish and juvenile wants brilliantly showcases your dismal failure as even a shadow of a parent.

There is more to being than a mother than utilizing your womb. The show doesn’t stop at the last contraction or the cut of the umbilical cord. But I have a serious suspicion that the children were not human beings in some minds long before they even emerged into this world.

What does it feel like to carry and give birth to little more than tools and weapons?

I take comfort in the fact that the very thought repulses me.

About TheSmirkingCat

I am endlessly trying to make sense of a world that has completely and unapologetically lost its mind.
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6 Responses to Repulse

  1. Amy says:

    What you just described is no mother. What you described is an egg donor with no morals and no conscience.

    I hope I'm around when the kids get older and give that worthless waste of air the comeuppance so richly deserved

  2. “There is more to being than a mother than utilizing your womb.”
    Well said, my friend. It's too bad that more people don't realize this simple truth.
    Hoping everything is okay with your family.

  3. i so agree with what amy said… and we've (hubs and i), have come to the conclusion.. that we know jake has been spoon fed lies forever.. and that one day, when he's much older… he'll hear the truth.. every bit of it..

    some might disagree with that approach- but i think he deserves to know…

  4. Crys says:

    Well said indeed.

  5. stepmumoftheyear says:

    Hugs xxx

  6. Vix says:

    Sing it sister! As unfortunate as all of our situations may be, I'm glad there are others who are going through all the ridiculous drama the hubby and I are. What is it that makes these exes so bitter & twisted that they want to use these wonderful, innocent kids as weapons in their inane wars?! Props to all the “bonus” parents out there!

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